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2009 NEWS,
EVENTS & DATES FOR YOUR DIARY
Cyber-bullying
is 'any form of bullying that is carried out using
technology', including bully-blogging and happy-slapping.
Don't use your mobile or the internet to undermine or bully another
person - it's not clever! It is a crime in fact! More and more
cases are being reported to us at The National Bullying Helpline
affecting both adults and children - in the workplace and in the
community.
The Power
of a Helpline: During November a mother called the helpline
regarding concerns relating to her 6 year old son. The call triggered
a Police investigation, initiated by us. Subsequently, 4 young
children were identified as being at risk of sexual abuse and
those children are now receiving the support they need. They are
now safe! That is the power of just one call to our helpline.
Ultimately, we
deal with cases of discrimination and harassment - but distrubing
cases of physical bullying, such as assault or even sexual abuse
are also being reported to us. In another recent case a 12 year
old girl emailed us a 'suicide note' in which she alleged she
had been raped. We triggered the emergency services and we are
pleased to report that this girl is now safe!
Sponsorship:
Swindon Wildcats have adopted us as their charity for the 2009/2010
season. Swindon Wildcats (Ice Hockey) want to work closely with
us to help us raise awareness. Together, Willie Wildcat (their
mascot) and The National Bullying Helpline are partnerhing to
visit in excess of 30 schools in Wiltshire. Recently we have visited
Peatmore, Gorse Hill infants, Holy Rood Junior, Fynamore and St
Bartholomews, Lainsmead Primary, Swindon New College, Eldene Primary
and St Joseph’s Catholic School – where 11 schools
gathered as part of an anti-bullying event to mark National Ban
Bullying week. Well done St Joseph’s !
Other activities this week include
projects that employers, nationally, have organised to celebrate
this important anniversary; such as dress-down-days and fund-raising
events for us.
Swindon Borough Council launched
an Anti Bullying Vision this month, chaired by myself, in consultation
with organisations that work with young people and their families.
Our new Vision sets out the 7 main principles considered essential
when combating bullying amongst children. If you would like to
know more please contact me.
Last but by no means last, coinciding
with this week, we are extremely proud to announce that The
Rt Hon Ann Widdecombe MP and Cllr Mary O’Connor,
Chair of the London Health Commission, have both accepted
Patron roles at our Charity. Our new Patrons will play an important
role in helping us to promote our cause at national level.
Have a great week everyone. Thank
you for your support and keep in touch.
From all of us
at The National Bullying Helpline.
The only helpline
in the UK that assists both adults and children.
7th November : NATIONAL
BAN BULLYING AT WORK DAY. This
year 7th November falls on a Saturday. Each year we have marked
the day in memory of Andrea Adams and Tim Field and all those
who have dedicated their lives to eliminating workplace bullying.
Please consider organising an event at work on either Friday 6th
November or Monday 9th. Thank you.
16th to
20th November : NATIONAL BAN BULLYING WEEK. We
are organising a lot of events
this week. Please contact us if you would like to get involved.
More details to follow.
11th
October 2009 : SWINDON HALF MARATHON :
The date is 11.10.09 .... counting
down. We are looking for runners for the Swindon Half Marathon
2009. To run the Half Marathon you need to book in advance. Download
a booking form and nominate your charity. On the day you may run
the 'Fun Run' or the 'Muti-terrain'., or the 'Wheelchair event'.
The organisers will be establishing a website, details will follow,
to enable you to go on line and download a Sponsorship form. Contact
us today on 0845 22 55 787 if you would like to take part in the
marathon and raise funds for us. We are one of the chosen charities
supporting this event.
20th September : Lydia
stood on the fourth plinth at Trafalgar Square. See
Sponsorship page.
19 September 2009 : Lawyers and Charities
call for radical changes in law to address bullying - particularly
in schools. The National Bullying Helpline
say; An Anti-Bullying Policy is not enough as often it is just a
paperwork exercise. The burden of proof should not be on the parent
alone to prove their child is a target of bullying - there needs
to be a shared 'common sense' approach. A parent should not report
individual cases to the class teacher - as, very often, the class
teacher become defensive and this creates more conflict and distress!!
A firm Government stance is now
required. A Government Directive or Code of Practice is needed (similar
to the ACAS Code of Conduct in the workplace). Anti bullying Codes
of Conduct should be visible to parents and teachers. Regulators
and proper registration processes should be in place and cases recorded,
statistically, and analysed. There should be a team of collectively
appointed mentors and harassment buddies in every school comprising
of both teachers and parents. There needs to be regular reviews
of cases, outcomes and lessons learnt. There should also be mandatory
education in schools for children on coping mechanisms and independent
arbitrators, investigators and mediators - funded by the Government.
NB: It would be good also if we stopped calling targets of bullying
'victims'. A child should not be encouraged to think of himself/herself
as 'a victim'.
26 August : Sarah Cawood,
Celebrity TV Presenter, becomes Patron of The National Bullying
Helpline. Sarah has worked in the broadcasting
industry for over a decade. She has just finished filming Ultimate
Girls Night In for 4Music and is working closely with Sky One. Recently
Sarah has been presenting Eurovision for BBC3, The National Lottery
EuroMillions Draw for BBC1, Love is Blind, The Real Ugly Betty for
Wedding TV, Terminator : Behind the Scenes for Virgin 1 and Essential..and
Travel 2008 for the Travel Channel. Sarah is also the narrator of
ITV1's popular daytime show Daily Cooks Challenge and she is the
sponsor voice for Trouble TV. "Sarah is a popular
TV presenter and we are delighted to have her as our Patron. We
need to get some very important messages across to children right
now, given the increase in cyber bullying and anti-social behavior.
We know Sarah will help us to keep children and young people safe,
nationally". Christine Pratt.
25 August : Swindon Wildcats
(Ice Hockey Team) Adopt The National Bullying Helpline Charity for
the 2009/10 season. Fixtures details below/right. The
Swindon Wildcats (Ice Hockey team) are a truly community orientated
sports club and they are working with schools and kids across Swindon;
through roadshows and in respect of their 'learn to skate' programme.
They are also supporting The National Bullying Helpline Charity
as part of their school visits programme and through a fund-raising
initiative for the Charity. Anyone struggling with bullying issues
should eat well and exercise regularly. These are two important
messages The Swindon Wildcats and The National Bullying Helpline
Charity want to promote across Wiltshire schools in tech run up
to National Ban Bullying week : 16 -20 November 2009. For more information
contact us or see www.swindonwildcats.com
ANNOUNCEMENT: The
Directors of The National Bullying Helpline are extremely sorry
to hear that The Andrea Adams Trust has gone out of business
due to lack of funding. The Andrea Adams Trust has done some very
good work in this arena over the last decade, fiercely striving
to combat unacceptable workplace malpractice. We want to acknowledge
and thank The Andrea Adams Trust for their very good work. The Trust
say they are 'ready to pass on the baton to other organisations
to fight against workplace bullying'. If you have had a close association
with that Trust, (Partners or those seeking support) and would like
to speak to us, we would be pleased to hear from you and we will
do all we can to help those in distress right now. Call us today.
PAST EVENTS
7th
March 2009 : THE TV SHOW CHANNEL 4. Christine
Pratt, CEO of The National Bullying Helpline appeared on The TV
Show, Channel 4, 7th March 2009. A panel debated complaints submitted
to Channel 4 following the 4 part 'Boys & Girls Alone'
documentary. We say these
children in this documentary were NOT placed at risk at all, that
they were very well supervised and that the experience is unlikely
to cause the children to suffer long-term psychological damage.
Expert Child Psychologists disagree and allege that these children
have been exploited. If anyone
believes that the children appearing in the Boys & Girls series
were bullied, or that the spats that occurred were not appropriately
'nipped in the bud' and addressed - we would invite you to come
and spend just half a day at our call centre in Wiltshire. Consider
the experience at our call centre as part of your CPD (personal
development training). You will find the experience truly enlightening.
We welcome your
comments: Email info@nationalbullyinghelpline.co.uk
April
2009 : THE ANNE FRANK STORY. In April
2009 Swindon Borough Council promoted the Anne Frank Story across
Schools and Colleges in Wiltshire to educate children about the
importance of anti-bullying and discrimination issues. The National
Bullying Helpline played a major role in this initiative.
2008 EVENTS
IDS CONFERENCE : 13th
November 2008
Christine Pratt, CEO of The National Bullying Helpline,
was the Keynote speaker on 13th November 2008 at the IDS Annual
Bullying & Harassment at Work Conference. Christine spoke about:
- The effects of Bullying & Harassment
- The cost to the business
- The cost to society and
- The cost to the individual.
Contact us today if you would like to know more
about the effects and the cost of bullying to your organisation.
NATIONAL BAN BULLYING WEEK : 17 - 21 November
2008
During National Ban Bullying week, 2008, we launched
our ‘KIDS' section. A number of exciting initiatives took
place both locally within Wiltshire and Nationally. See below for
details.
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BULLYING AT WORK
AFFECTS 8 out of 10 PEOPLE
From November 2008 The National
Bullying Helpline, based in Dorcan, Swindon , will be Nationally
recognised as the only UK Charity to address bullying both at work
and play – both in the playground and in the workplace!
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LIKE A POSTER FOR YOUR OFFICES?
Order your Poster today and
be one of the first to receive a poster which is being designed
by Children and Students across Hampshire. Wiltshire and Somerset
during Anti Bullying Week. See below for details.
SWINDON WILDCATS
Home Fixtures
Sat 12 Sep. Guildford. 5.45pm
Wed 16/9. Slough. 7.30pm
Sat 19/9. Romford. 5.45pm
Sat 26/9. Bracknell. 5.45pm
Sat 3/10. Manchester. 5.45pm
Sat 10/10. Peterborough.
5.45pm
Sat 17/10. Romford. 5.45pm
Sat 24/10. Basingstoke.
5.45pm
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