HAPPY
NEW YEAR
Unlike
any other bullying advice-line, The National Bullying Helpline provides
24/7, all year round, practical and timely support. During Bank
Holiday's support is available. At any time of the day or night,
even throughout the Christmas and New Year period, you can download
both our FREE documentation and The Complete
Guide (£10). Seasonal Wishes to you all !
BULLYING
IS DISCRIMINATION
BULLYING
DOES NOT DISCRIMINATE
...
any one of us may be targeted
Poor
Conflict Management skills cost the UK £24
billion a year in lost working days.
55%
of the workforce has had no training in managing conflict
Lack of both a) funding and b)
resources, combined with c) high stress levels - results in a
culture of bullying and discrimination in our view. Where there
is interaction with the public also, bullying and harassment is
prevalent in our experience and this is confirmed through the
statistics we keep. The above combination of factors is found
in just about every Public Sector establishment.
80%
of the calls to our helpline are from the Public Sector (NHS,
Education, Council's and Emergency Services). If you are responsible
for personnel or for Training in one of these sectors, you should
know about us and you should certainly understand how we can help
you.
We are often asked what is bullying?
Bullying is discrimination (less favourable treatment). Bullying
is unreasonable behaviour directed at one person, or a group of
people, which creates risk. The risk can be to an individual
or an organisation but a bully is not necessarily the one who
is held personally accountable by the Courts. This treatment does
not have to be repeated, in our view, to be regarded as unacceptable
conduct or malpractice. The Health & Safety Executive focuses
on the employers Duty of Care but we must never underestimate
the risk to the individual once distress turns to stress. The
majority of people targeted by bullies, in our experience, are
high achievers, or they excel in their field. They may simply
have above average family responsibilities or religious or cultural
requirements that differentiate them from others in the community
or workplace. Those who bully fail to value or acknowledge the
importance of flexibility and diversity. This 'failure' and inflexible
manner may be permanent or momentary and can be for a variety
of reasons. It is often dependent upon the bullies personal inability
to manage or communicate but it may be due simply to pressure
placed on them as an individual - combined with a reluctance to
accept that they are the one with the problem.
We are a Charity set up to help
eradicate Bullying in the Workplace and the Playground. Don't
struggle, whether you are the bully or the bullied, we can help
you. If you need specific
advice and would like a copy of our £10 Complete
Guide to Dispute Resolution to enable you to take the
necessary actions yourself, see our Employee section and download
the information, day or night, as you need it. This document contains
sample letters and policies and is worth in excess of £300
- and may even save you from incurring legal costs during the
initial phase. This guide includes a sample Grievance and Appeal
letter and sample policies, so you can compare the statutory recommended
policies with your own Company Policies! Your £10 will be
put towards the Charity utility / running costs.
WE CAN HELP
- click here for more information
- If you are an employee and you feel you are being discriminated
against or bullied
WE CAN HELP
- click here for more information
- If you are an employer who is concerned that bullying may be
going on within your company
WE CAN HELP
- click here for more information
- Whether you are a child, teenager or adult, whoever you are,
whatever your role, if you need help because you are struggling
with bullying issues
WE CAN HELP
- click here for more information
CONFLICT
OF INTEREST : Since
its inauguration this helpline has been funded by HR & Diversity
Management Limited, an HR consultancy established by Christine and
David Pratt, who also founded this helpline (Charity). The Consultancy
does not profit from the helpline - quite the contrary! The Consultancy
funds the helpline entirely. This is not a Government funded helpline.
The processes between the Consultancy and the Charity are open and
transparent and were vetted and approved by both Companies House
and The Charities Commission when the Charity was founded. Furthermore,
the Charity works closely with a number of Lexel Accredited Employment
Law Solicitors who have also audited and approved processes in compliance
with Law Society Regulations. Governing bodies and Associate Partners
are satisfied that there is no conflict of interest as the relationship
between the two operations are transparent and lawful. If you are
concerned about conflict of interest, or do not understand the term,
please contact our Trustees. There is a complaints procedure on
this website. Write in with any concerns and our Trustee's will
always respond.
We are not a Samaritans
lookalike. We help people in distress in a practical, positive,
timely, way and in some cases we will put callers in touch with
professional service providers ; (solicitors, investigators, mediators
etc). Where a fee changes hands this is declared up front. Everyone
who calls the helpline is given 'open and transparent' choice -
and advice and guidance to enable them to ascertain and understand
both their legal options and/or statutory obligations.
OUR
HISTORY: The
National Bullying Helpline (NBH) was established in 2002 and
acquired Charity status in 2007. NBH has traditionally been
associated with workplace bullying advising both employees
and employers - but recently extended its remit to cover all
nature of bullying, specifically playground bullying and bullying
within neighborhoods and local communities. This broad umbrella
provides the perfect platform for the charity to advise and
speak on a variety of issues and to become the instinctive
'port of call' for those struggling with bullying issues.
NBH works with the media on issues which have a bullying element.
Where confidentiality is sought it is always given - unconditionally.
NBH relies on gifts and donations and operates with the support
of Employers and the Voluntary sector in Wiltshire.
The National Bullying Helpline
is the only Charity in the UK providing FREE
support in all corners of Society, whatever the nature of
the bullying (abuse, physical assault, discrimination,
wrongful dismissal, bullying at home or in the community,
hurtful remarks, bullying in schools - both in the playground
and the staff-room). We provide professional, timely,
support to those who need it. We specialise in Dispute Resolution,
Mediation, Facilitation, Law and Training and Development.
Our objective is to address conflict, stress, risk and costly
litigation. BERR wants to bring Employment Tribunal statistics
down - so do we. We promote excellence through research and
collaboration, supporting our Government, the CIPD, CMI and
leaders of workplace best practice standards. No one person
should feel 'inferior' due to the conduct of another. We passionately
commit to these fundamental concepts, stamping-out inappropriate
'Abuse of Power'. We will champion those whose personality
does not enable them to stand up to a bully. We will promote
organisations who support this belief too, enabling us to
help the weaker person. We research innovative and improved
practices and methodologies and promote models of excellence
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TRIBUNALS:
The average cost to an employer in defending a Tribunal claim
is £15,000 to £20,000. Last
year there were 189,000 Tribunal applications
- up one third from 2006.
During this period the average compensation awards were; £7,974
for unfair dismissal, £14,049 for race
discrimination and £10,053 for sex discrimination.
Equal pay claims are the most financially crippling according
to Paul Lambdin of Stevens and Bolton. "They
can become very technical because often you are comparing apples
with pears". The same can be said for disability
discrimination cases, where frequently expert advice is sought
on whether an employer has made a reasonable adjustment to accommodate
an employee, as required by law.
Personnel Today and Messrs Stevens
& Bolton. 23 September 2008
PUBLIC SECTOR SICKNESS:
Official figures show that workplace sickness in the Department
for Work and Pensions cost £65.8 million
in 2007-8 bringing the total cost to the Public Sector in the
past three years to £228 million. These
figures show that, on average, each of the DWP's 114,000 staff
took 10.1 sick days last year, nearly double the private sector
average of 5.8 days.
Mail on Sunday August 2008
NBH IS INVOLVED
IN
National Programmes
such as National Ban Bullying week and public newsworthy events,
working closely with ACAS, the CIPD, CMI and our Government; BERR,
and with the BBC and GMTV newsdesk on case studies and press releases
Local Programmes
such as local competitions with Schools and Wiltshire Top 100 employers,
local and annual marathons and fun-runs, The Swindon Half Marathon,
local fund raising and Charity events.
THANK
YOU TO OUR SPONSORS & VOLUNTEERS
Infotec. Hinton Newport. HR
& Diversity Management Limited. Sainsbury's Stratton. Zurich.
Masterclass. NASUWT. Thomson Directories. Morgan Crucible.
Charles Lucas & Marshall Solicitors, Monahan's, BBC Wiltshire
Sound, GWR, Brunel FM & Swindon 105.5 FM Community Radio and
VAS Swindon.
We are still looking to work with
a National Sponsor. Could that be your organisation?
Thanks
for this, have just spent an enjoyable hour reading it! Fantastic
job, you have managed to impart clarity into the veritable "forest"
of paper. Your conclusions and recommendations are in my view absolutely
accurate, and highlight the real need for management training. Best
wishes and thanks for all your support. Satisfied
Corporate Employer on receipt of an Investigation Report. May 2006.
ORGANISATIONS
WE HAVE ASSISTED
ACAS, AMICUS, UNISON,
TUC, The Army, BT, Capita, DfES, DLA, FSB, HSE, IiP, The Home Office,
Welsh Assembly, Durham County Council, Cathedral School of St Mary's
Plymouth, LEA's (nationally), GTC, The NHS (nationally), Nationwide,
Royal Mail, The Fire Service, CEMEX Plc, Laura Ashley, Women's Aid,
The Prison Service, Essex County Fire and Rescue, The NHS Mental
Health SW1, Nottingham Play Forum, Central Swindon Medical Centre,
Oxford Brookes University, Convergys Europe, APEX, Cadbury's, Laden
Pre-School, Merton Timber Wales, Barnett, Enfield and Haringey Mental
Health Trust, Tesco, Somerfield, Cricklade Town Council, ASDA, Once
Upon a Time Day Nursery, Wiltshire and Swindon Fire Authority, Motorola,
Honda, Energis, Danesfield House Hotel and Spa, Grenville Technology,
Zurich Finance, W H Smith, Rowan Foods Wrexham, Bruce Stephenson
Limited, Hammersmith Primary Trust, Sara Shoemark Beauty Salon,
NHS Oxford, OXFAM, YMCA, Three County Police Constabularies, The
Samaritans, Virgin Mobile.
OTHER USEFUL
NUMBERS
- Childline : 0800 1111
- The NSPCC : 0808 800 5000
- Kidscape : 020 7730 3300
- Relate : 0300 100 1234
- Splitz : 01225 777724
- Victim Support : 01380 729476
- Barnardo's : 01225 751261
- Women's Aid National Helpline : 0808 200 0247
- Samaritans : 0845 790 9090
- Police Domestic Violence Liaison Officer :
North & West Wilts. 01249 449766
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